
Age-by-age schedules, regression rescue plans, and a 14-day reset that actually works.
Toddler sleep is a different animal from baby sleep. A 6-month-old needs four naps and 14 hours of sleep a day. A 24-month-old needs one nap and 12 hours. The transition between those two animals is what most "sleep regressions" actually are: the schedule that worked at 9 months stops working at 14 months, and parents blame themselves rather than the developmental stage. The single most useful concept in toddler sleep is the wake window — the time between sleep periods.
Most parents underestimate the bedtime wake window by 30-60 minutes. A 24-month-old often needs 5-6 hours awake before bed. Putting them down after 3 hours produces a fight at bedtime, an early wake-up, or both. Putting them down at the right time produces a child who falls asleep in 10 minutes. The advice "shorter wake windows and earlier bedtime" works for babies but consistently backfires for toddlers; the toddler-friendly approach is more counterintuitive and uses different levers entirely.
The other reality of toddler sleep is that regressions are usually wake-window problems wearing the costume of developmental regressions. The 18-month regression is the one parents have heard the most about and understand the least; it almost always responds to lengthening wake windows by 30-45 minutes total across the day. Genuine developmental regressions exist (teething, motor milestones, language bursts) but they self-resolve in 10-14 days regardless of what you do. The 14-day reset chapter is specifically for the case where nothing has worked and the system needs to start fresh.
Sleep advice splinters by month: a 14-month-old needs different total sleep than a 24-month-old. This workbook gives you the exact wake windows, nap schedules, and bedtime routines for every age band from 12–36 months — plus a 14-day reset for when it all falls apart.
Find your child's age band (12 months / 15-18 / 18-24 / 24-30 / 30-36 months), use the wake-window schedule there for 7 days, observe your child's data, adjust within the framework. The 14-day reset is the protocol when nothing is working: 3 days log only, 4 days fix the schedule, 7 days hold the line. Bedtime routine stays identical for 18+ months.
A peek at three pages from inside the workbook.
One page. Six age bands. Exact wake windows in minutes. Most parents have it on the fridge by day 2.
It is not the regression — it is usually a too-early bedtime + a too-long nap. Three checks before you change anything else.
Day 1: log only. Day 2–4: fix bedtime. Day 5–7: fix nap. Day 8–14: hold the line. Most resets work by day 10.
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